Your Questions About Why Might A Kiss Be Bad
Richard asks…
really scared about first kiss?
ok well i really like this guy, but im scared that i might mess up when i kiss him, or that i might be a bad kisser...i dno why but ive been thinking about this topic for the last couple of days..please help if u can
Artie answers:
First of all, relax. You have to understand that it's just a kiss. First kisses are a part of growing-up and everyone goes through it at some point.
The best thing is to be honest with yourself and your guy. Try talking about it with him. Is it his first kiss too? He might be as scared as you are.
Just make sure you're ready. Don't push yourself into anything and you'll be fine. And RELAX! 
It will all be funny to you in a few years.
Ruth asks…
I think i might have did something really bad?
I think i might have did something really bad?
I think i might have did something really bad?
I think i might have did something really bad? I was with my ex for a year i was madly in love with him, and i still miss him dearly ! He cheated on me so i am not going to take him back i just miss his hugs, kisses, and conversation! I found out he had unprotected sex twice with two different girls during our relationship! He has been very mean to me after our break up he has called me horrible names! He has not apologized i try to be nice to him and i wanted to know why did he play with my heart, i asked him and he went bonkers he used a lot of profanity and told me not to call him ever again 
I don't understand i am supposed to be mad and angry NOt him!
Revenge I did something bad today i had to put my morals to the side and i let my feelings take over unfortunately! I hacked his facebook and posted on his wall that he gave me a Std a lot of the girls he mess with are his friends on facebook and they commented immediately smh it was 5 of them all of them had unprotected sex with hi, within the last week smh I feel bad but i want him to hurt like i do how could he hurt me :..( and not care
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I believe this will teach the girls to protect themselves, and him as well! I am upset but my intentions are good i believe lol I love him and no matter what i widh him the best but he is going the wrong route by dealing with all of these girls!
Would God forgive me? Should I delete It ? what if he kills himself or something because people believe it
Artie answers:
God is going to feed you to the devil wicked girl!... No, I'm just messing with you kid. Seriously though, how do you fool yourself into thinking that your intentions were any good? You obviously did that out of jealousy, and then made up an excuse to make yourself feel better. Not only that, but you have just spread a rumor about yourself.... That is definitely something I don't see very often. Even if "god" forgives you I doubt the police will. Hacking is illegal, you'll most likely be reported. I'm going to go ahead and tell you that your probably screwed. One more thing, you ex has every right to cheat on you if he wants to. It's his choice to not care about you. As it is yours to love him. Let the poor guy go, you've caused him enough grief. By the way it's "I think I might have DONE something bad". I'm not going to bother correcting the rest of your crappy spelling. It's seems your overly dramatic personality has bored me...
Helen asks…
Why do i want a girlfriend so bad?
Ok so im about to be 21 Im bi although i have never been with a girl NOT EVEN A KISS! :/.. havent had sex with a guy either although I've had many boyfriends. Anyways so I feel like i want a girlfriend desperately I join dating websites and stuff but no luck also I keep checking out girls EVERYWHERE I go like thats the first thing i think about are there any cute girls! I dont want to feel like this plus Im very shy like i cant look at a girl i like if she looks at me i have to look down or look back so its really hard for me to flirt and let a girl know i like her because ill look away pretend im not interested i get really intimidated and with guys is like whatevers i never get shy around them, how can i change this how can i not feel so intimidated? why do i feel like if i keep looking at them they will know i like them and be like eww! or something :[ also being intimate is friking hard for me and its not cuz im ugly or out of shape cuz im not, so I kinda don't want a relationship well I dont want sex and thats hard now a days because almost everyone wants sex. Also a big problem why i havent gone out with a girl when i had the chance is my mom i worry about her finding out and she has said if any one of us turns out to be gay she will kick us out and believe me she is not kidding! Ok so im cute im not ugly so why havent i found a girl?? Do i want a girlfriend so bad because im dying to see what its like to kiss and caress a girl and cuddle and stuff? Like I've told girls pretty stuff specially this one girl i was in love with i can be super romantic but I didnt have the guts to come over to her house i feel stupid! Anyways what can i do to not like look for girls everywhere i go? i used to get mad at guys cuz they were always checking out girls everywhere and now im like that! grr even when i had a bf i was thinking of girls! I need help i gotta stop thinking of girls because there is no one i know that im interested in so i know its not happening anytime soon! sorry this might sound stupid to some of you but i have no one else to talk about this with and its really driving me crazy!!
NO BAD COMMENTS PLEASE!
Aww thanks anonymous! I really needed to get this out of my system since I have no close girl friends and my guy friends just dont understand they just say "oh you like girls thats Hot" lol like that helps!
But I do need help on how to stop thinking of girls so much..
It is good to kno Im not the only one who feels this way I feel less lonely. Best of luck to all you girls looking for a gf! Hope you find that special someone soon!!
Artie answers:
*puts arm out*
Shut your pretty little trap and be my girl.
I think you pretty much answered your own question(s). You have feelings for girls, are dying to see for sure but fear of the results.
It's good to let your emotions out though. Hang in there, bud.
Mark asks…
Why have I been feeling so bad lately?
I have been feeling tired constantly, I haven't been very hungry, I get a dizzy kind of feeling when I walk, and I have been having stomach and head aches a lot. I'm only 15 and very concerned. Not sure whats going on my my mom said she thinks it's anxiety (I have had pretty bad anxiety my whole life, but not sure why it would be kicking in now, Im not nervous about anything now), and my sister said it might be mono (can you get mono without kissing anyone because I have never kissed anyone) If you have any idea what it could be please let me know.
Artie answers:
Hi there,
Firstly you're not alone. It definitely sounds like anxiety, and I suffered the same symptoms.
The reason that you're getting these types of feelings is that your 'fight or flight' response has been triggered (which is the cause of our anxiety). This makes our body kick out adrenaline which makes us feel like this. It also makes us see everything as a perceived threat which makes us think like that.
What I would do is treat the cause of the anxiety.
There are 3 things you can do to help yourself. Firstly, speak to a counselor that you trust and get along with. Don't be afraid to try different ones to find one that you like. This will help with the thinking side of the issue.
Secondly, go and get some natural therapy to help you eg. Acupuncture or chinese herbs to help balance your body. The reason you're feeling like this is because your body is out of balance and your 'fight or flight' response has been triggered, causing you to feel like that. These therapies will help to relax that and help you feel better.
Thirdly, do some regular meditation. Meditation helps to calm the nervous system. You can look up free guided meditations online to help you with that.
Hope that helps!
Thomas asks…
why don't I like kissing?
OKay so I have only kisses 3 guys, but each time I really didn't like it, I felt uncomfortable, and really self concious. I liked 2 of the guys a lot I was very attracted to them, but when they tried to kiss me I kept turning away, until i finally kissed them, i get all panicky and self concious and I'm pretty sure I'm a bad kisser.
But this problem really is ruining things for me, because last month I slept with a guy i really liked, but I told him i don't like kissing so we didnt kiss, i get the feeling he feels i pushed him away or don't like him because i didn't kiss him , or might think i'm angry at him because he took my virginity. i don't know what to do. why is kissing such a problem with me?
Artie answers:
My sisters friend had this problem, I know it's bad but they were sixteen when I was eight so I used to listen to them, but now im 16. Anyways she always said it just felt weird and she wasn't comfortable with it... And you know why? She was in denial because she was actually a lesbian. My sister who is 100% straight felt a little uncomfortable at the begining but now they are still best friends. Just think about it, is there anyone you could be a lesbian.
I know that's probably not what you wanted to hear but I'm just telling you what I know! Good luck!
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