Your Questions About Why Might A Kiss Be Bad
Lisa asks…
What do you think is a worse scenario to be in, and why?
choice A: Ex--boyfriend lied to you and told you he loved you to get nude photos out of you, and phone sex- he arrived to your dates late and didn't want to meet your parents. the photos he hasn't posted online, and hasn't to ld anyone about the photos. He just masturbates to the photos, and becomes hot and bothered by them. He has called you a bitch, stupid, not talented, mean, crazy, etc. Thankfully the photos don’t show your face too much, and you can lie about them being photoshopped if they ever get released- which you doubt- because your ex boyfriend stole the photos from your cell phone- you didn’t give them to him. You doubt he will release them because they aren’t his, and if he does release the photos you can press charges against him, for defamation of character, slander, harassment, etc. It isn’t like your going to be famous or see the guy anywhere- so you doubt anyone you know will see the photos, or will know about them. You feel bad because he is the first guy you let see you in the nude, see photos of you like that, kiss, talk to intimately on the phone, and he was such a jerk- but you at least didn’t have sex with him, didn’t make out with him, and didn’t have kids with him. You can walk away from him.
Choice B: Your ex-girlfriend has photos of you she posts online with your name, and email address, and it says you are gay, ugly, and bald- which you are. The profiles also say you are a womanizer, transsexual, drunk, broke, and dirty. Your ex girlfriend has given gay guys your email address, and phone number, and you get all kinds of harassing phone calls, emails, and texts from gay guys, and from her. Your ex girlfriend made a fake Myspace, BlackPlanet, and hi5 page with your pictures on it, and she says you have AIDS, STDS, and do gay guys up the butt constantly. It also says you are nasty, promiscuous, have had over 60 sex partners, have missing teeth, have sex with old people, etc. She airs out all of your dirty laundry on these online profiles. Your ex girlfriend plans on putting your nude photos online as well, and also pictures of you with gay guys and girls being intimate- having sex. The pages your ex-girlfriend made about you a lot of your childhood friends see, and a lot of your childhood friends think you might be a real jerk, and a loser. A lot of gossip is following the new pages about you. Especially the part of the pages that say- don’t hire him, and don’t date him. Future dates you want to have with girls have been compromised because of the online profiles made of you; girls see it and think you are gay with diseases, but your not gay and you have no diseases.
Which scenario is worse, and why?
Haha- this is a serious situation too- but what comes around goes around-
oh in choice A: the guy called you a b*tch
Yeah choice A sucks pretty bad- but like naked photos can be made through photoshop to anyone- even if you don’t take them-
I think choice B is worse just because of the posting your pictures, name, and email/phone number saying your guy with STDS. Having gay dudes call you, text you, email you- all your employers/friends/family can see these profiles too. Choice B is far worse.
Yeah choice A sucks pretty bad- but like naked photos can be made through photoshop to anyone- even if you don’t take them-
I think choice B is worse just because of the posting your pictures, name, and email/phone number saying your guy with STDS. Having gay dudes call you, text you, email you- all your employers/friends/family can see these profiles too. Choice B is far worse.
love like ike and tina- hell naw- haha
Artie answers:
Sounds like the two of you are immature and irresponsible.
Do try to breakup civilly. Otherwise this will needlessly cost the two of far greater pain than necessary.
Get a counselor to do this if needed. It will be worth the money in long run.
I hope the two of you have peace and comfort soon.
Mark asks…
First kiss? My boyfriend is planning our kiss?
Me and my boyfriend are both 13 and been dating for a week now today.. It's kind of been a awkward relationship.. for example: he would hold my hand in the hall way and all of a sudden stop after a few minutes and we kind of just act like friends.. But I'm his FIRST girlfriend so I guess I don't blame him for being so stiff lol. His friends are always asking why we haven't kiss yet, they keep telling us to kiss right now.. infront of them.. I don't feel comfortable having my first kiss right then and there..with other people around (I mean what if I mess up??) D: And today afterschool i was gonna give him a quick hug goodbye but he wouldn't let go. he told me we could have are first kiss right now because there isn't many kids walking by.. And I was just frozen, and all like.. Wouldn't it be better if we didn't plan it.. and we were completely alone? he kept saying we could go in the hallway or something. But I made up an excuse that I had to go.. It makes me nervous if were going to plan our kiss.. Because then i'll know whats happening D: And I'm not exactly sure how to kiss.. and what if I'm a bad kisser D: Good thing is that it's also his first kiss to though..
& I have a feeling he might end up trying to kiss me tomarrow.. what do i do ):
Artie answers:
Well, a planned kiss isn't the way I'd go, but my kiss was kind of butchered. XD But I'll tell the story after answering the question.
So don't sweat it. If you feel that the moment's right, then kiss him. If you feel the moment's right, and he's not making a move, then you kiss HIM. You know those cheesy movies where the music tells us when the moment is right? Well, it's a little harder, but trust me, you'll know when the time is right. So just relax, don't think about, and smooch 'em when you're ready.
My story (It's pretty irrelevent to your question 
): I was a shy kid. 16-17, can't remember, but it was one of those. Hahaha. Anyways, we just got outta a pep rally, and I was going to give my girl a hug before we both left school, but then... I went in for the kiss. Dunno why or where I got the courage. Anyways, I missed. Haha, I kissed her on the corner of her mouth, but she saw how embarrased I was, so she gave me a smooch right then. 
Mind you, this was when there were crowds of people going home, so we weren't alone. Oh good times. Couldn't stop smile for a while.
So I guess the jist of the story is to relax. When the kiss happens, you'll most likely be all smiley for the next week. XD No need to get all worked over something like this.
Have fun!
Laura asks…
Girls why does she tense up? any guys that might know can help too any advice is appreciated?
Why does she tense up? Help please =[ especially girls!?
What does this tensing up mean?
When i was maing out with my gf i used my tounge a little...not like deep kissing but a little bit more than just using our lips. But whenever my tounge touched her tounge a little her body would tense up..for a sec but she didnt stop kissing me..nor did she ever complain about it
BUT Im guessing the tensing up (she's really sensitive) is a bad thing?
Artie answers:
I'm going to assume you are in your teens...so with that if your girlfriend isn't experienced in kissing she may just not be allowing herself to enjoy the "french kiss". She may be a bit prudish and the idea of touching tongues may not be that appealing to her. So while she doesn't want to disappoint you she is "taking" the kiss, but not allowing herself to enjoy it. You should maybe ask her what she is feeling when you kiss.
Maybe is the opposite and kissing and touching tongues is a real turn on to her and she tenses up to try to control it.
Thomas asks…
Men- Why did he break up with me?
I met a guy around two and a half months ago. We dated for a month. In the beginning, he seemed very interested in me. Generally, he is upset and moody but when we started dating his friends said that he seemed to be a lot happier. When we first started dating, I told him that I wanted to wait to have sex. He seemed to not like that idea, but he respected my wishes. One night, we went out to the bar and had a few too many drinks and I grabbed him and kissed him. We ended up fooling around a lot later that night. He seemed mad and asked me why I kissed him the next day. I just laughed it off and said, "That's why you shouldn't get me drunk." We started fooling around some more every night after that, but never had sex until one night when I felt him getting excited. We would always fool around and then, he would masturbate so that I didn't have to do anything I didn't feel comfortable with. I felt bad about that, so I told him that we should have sex. He seemed worried and asked me if I was sure. I told him I was and we ended up having sex but he wasn't that into it. When it was over, he asked me why I changed my mind. I told him that we were practically already having sex, so we might as well. We had sex every day after that for about 3-4 days in a row. Then I got my period and we couldn't do anything. We went a while without doing anything, hardly kissing even. We started slipping into friends zone and I didn't even feel comfortable initiating anything with him. I brought it up once and he just laughed. We almost broke up over that. Two days later, we did end up breaking up. My question is this- did he break up with me because of sex? Or was our lack of sex because we had been fighting about other issues for a while and he just didn't feel connected with me anymore?
Artie answers:
Maybe this should be a lesson to wait until marriage from now on. The fact that he would do something you're not comfortable with means that he wasn't as good of a boyfriend as he could have been. The arguing too, that early on isn't good.
Breakups are usually caused by a combination of things that build up in time. The thing that triggered his action to initiate the separation shouldn't necessary be the source of his feelings. I think it's both, some people just can't get along that well.
I wish you all the best. (:
Betty asks…
Am I Being Bad By Kissing My Own Friend's Cheeks...?
When i see my friends, i kiss them on both cheeks and give them a little hug. I don't know why, it's how i am!
This boy in my course said to me it's haram to kiss girls that way, as others might think i am a lesbian...
What do you think?....
I know i am not a lesbian! ROFL...
I am not lesbian
Ahhh...i guess it's an arab thing then?
Thank You Dina!
Artie answers:
Don't worry
He's pretty much wishing that he's a girl right now ROFL
Aaah jealousy
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