Your Questions About Why Might A Kiss Be Bad

Why am I so stupid to think he might of cared?

I met a guy last October and we became friends and started to flirt. I really grew to like him but the only problem was that he was already in a relationship. He would flirt back with me and we actually talked about being together. He was very sweet to me, always thinking of me by buying me stuff and calling me. We met up a few times but we never did anything together. I think the most was we touched hands and he kissed me on the cheek. I wouldnt do anything else because he was in a relationship and no matter how much I wanted to I held back because I knew it wouldnt be right for him to cheat on his woman. I respected the fact that he had someone else. We still continued to talk but then about a month ago he just stopped coming around. He use to come to my work place not my house. Anyways, I thought maybe something happened to him but saw his truck this morning so I confirmed that he is still around and doing his normal thing. I want to call him but dont want to bother him because now I feel like he doesnt want anything to do with me. I just dont know how I can be so stupid to think he might of liked me and was thinking of being with me or at least we were good friends. I feel awful. Please dont give me any bad words. I know how bad this sounds, but for once I thought I found a good friend and again I was wrong.

why does he want to hurt me so bad?

There's this guy that I really like. Might even love, actually. Most likely. I've noticed him since the third grade, and I've been in almost all of his classes. During those years with him, he was the sweetest, funniest, cutest boy I had ever met. No one could compare to him. I didn't go to my school dance in 8th grade because he didn't ask me out, and there was no one else I wanted to be with. Not my best friend. None of the guys who asked me out, not because I wasn't attracted to them or they weren't nice or anything. They were kind as well, and everyone is beautiful, but I knew if I went to the dance with them I'd be even more miserable. Especially since I would probably compare every single facial feature, every joke, every word that he spoke with the guy that I like. I know it's not healthy, but I can't stop.

The highlight of my entire love life was about three months ago, when he finally asked me out. Everything was going perfectly for a month, but then something happened. I don't know what, but I feel like he changed. At first I just thought that I was being too clingy, so I stopped texting him for a while. I tried giving him his space, but then three weeks ago he yelled at me in the quad, in front of everyone about if I didn't want to be with him that bad, then we should just break up. Of course I said no, because I've liked him for so long. I didn't want to loose him that fast. I really don't think I'll be able to cope, if he left me so fast. I know I don't deserve him, he has had many girlfriends, and hes dumped all of them. I'm scared that I won't be good enough for just a few more months. I don't know what I'm doing wrong.

And just today, he asked our science teacher if he could switch science partners again, and he agreed. So for the entire period, I got to sit in the back with my friend while he sat with another girl, laughing with her and looking back at me often. I don't understand what hes trying to tell me. Does this mean he doesn't like me anyone? Is he just trying to hurt me?

Afterschool, I asked him what that was all about and he just kissed me before telling me that nothing was wrong, before going to his carpool.

And I know I must be the one doing things wrong because he used to be so sweet to me. He used to be so funny, so warm with me.

Please, any suggestions would be helpful. I don't want insults about him, things about him being a douche, because I know hes not. He was never mean to me, ever.

Thank you for reading so much!

Why my boyfriend doesn't make out or kiss me?

We've been dating for 1 year now, but kissed only 4 times and made out only once! We share a very close relationship, I mean, I know he cares and loves me a lot,he always wants to be with me, he only like to cuddle and hug me and nothing more and I wanna know what's wrong.
The times that we kissed and made out, he didn't feel embarrassed or awkward even if he had a hard on, he seemed to enjoy it. Neither of us has bad breath or whatever.
Whenever I try to ask him what the matter is, he changes the topic and doesn't want to talk about all this, neither does sex phone work between us!
It's frustrating! I mean, this is what really makes a relationship more interesting, but he keeps on avoiding all this... Anyone knows what the reason might be?? PLEASE HELP!
I'm 19 and he's 22..

"people always leave." why does missing someone have to hurt so bad? please help someone?

I became friends with this guy blake back in december. We became really good friends and pretty close. We eventually began to like eachother as more than friends. We had alot of amazing times together and the way he viewed things and just life in general had such a big impact on me. We went to prom together which was probably the best night of my life and after that we became really close. But he had had plans to leave to go up to school for 3 months and he left back in may. When he left I had a really hard time with him gone and i missed him so much...i didnt know it was going to be that hard. My best friend told me that he had liked me ever since the day he met me and he always talked about how beautiful i was and how much fun i was. The night before he left he bought me dinner, cuddled with me and held my hand and kissed me. and then the next day he left. I was really confused on what to do. So then me and my friends went up to visit him about a week ago and i was really nervous to see him. It was so nice to see him and i realized that i might love him :/ that just sounds crazy tho..when we were visiting him all i wanted to do was cry so i was really quiet. Me and blake gave eachother alot of hugs and he asked me why i have been so quiet..but i couldnt really get the time to talk to him. He doesnt come back home until august and he stays for a month and then leaves again for 3 months. and i have no way of talking to him cause he doesnt have a cell phone. He also seemed so happy with his life up at school and after seeing him i feel like i should move on what should i do? i have no idea how he feels about me anymore help please? It seems as if he has forgotten about me and im no longer in his thoughts anymore..:( we are 17. Im happy he's happy at school but just idk what is he thinking?
Im almost sure he doesnt feel the same way i do "staying far away from you hurts just as much as having you here with me. cause i know that either way i'll never get to be with you."

why is life so complicatedd? why are guys complicated and 2 faced?

My bf cheated on me, i have taken him back was i wrong to do this?
okay well he went up to bundy to work and i found out he cheated on me by looking through hes phone i no it was wrong but i was worried. i asked him what he did after 5 times lieing to me saying nothing happened he told me he might have kissed her but he doesnt remember cause he was drunk!. anyways he said the kiss ment nothing but then i found out he was sending flowers and a teddy bear to her saying to the most beautiful girl in the world. he says he doesnt no why he did it. anyways i forgave him but when i thought we where getting somewhere i found out he was txting her calling her babe xoxo and stuff, i ended up braking up with him. and one night i was drunk and i kissed another guy but he is making out im as bad as him i didnt do it when we where together. im back together with him again. i no now hes not txting her anymore, but he clames he does still wanna be with me but yet he has barely said sorry for what he did. how do i no if he wont do it again. yer it was just a kiss but will it be more next time. yer it was just a kiss but it ripped me apart. have i made a mistake taking him back he is a really nice guy kind hearted simply amazing. but now im wondering if i shouldnt have taken him back i keep telling him im over it now but when does someone get over there bf cheating? and since when is being drunk an excuse for cheating?